Love and BDSM - many people have already shared their thoughts on this topic. Some say you can't combine love and BDSM, others say they go hand in hand. For me love is essential for my BDSM-relationship. I really love my Master and my love helps me to submit to him. I try do to everything for him, to please him and to make his life easier and that is a lot connected with love. You might wonder, but my Master also loves me. For him training his slave, torturing him and commanding him is also connected with love. I feel totally save with my Master, I trust him absolutely. He is my Owner and my partner. He challenges me, he trains me, he commands me, he tortures me. But he also laughs with me, watches a movie with me, takes interest in my thoughts and my feelings.