The report of a guest slave

i had again the honour to visit Master D. and his slave for a whole weekend of service and submission. One year ago this slave already visited both, but this time was different.

It was the first time i received permission to serve Master D. by my own Master and they both had negotiated conditions before. So i was not as free as the year before to decide if i go to visit and serve. My Master expected to grant Master D. best service and represent him well.

Mistakes and Punishment: Lessons from Serving as a Guest Slave

I had the honor and pleasure of serving Master D as a guest slave. The experience was both enlightening and deeply inspiring. As a dedicated kinkster, I have always sought to understand the intricate dynamics of a Master-slave relationship. Despite my efforts, however, I discovered that there is always room for growth and improvement. Here are some key takeaways from my experience.

slave games

What happens when you have a creative Master who invites another Master and another slave?

Nothing good for the slave indeed! Recently Master suprised me with a visit of guests. But the twist was that not only another Master was invited but also another slave who both didn't knew each other! I can tell you in another post more about the evening. But the highlight were definitly the slave games! Master had designed a game where I and the other sub had to roll the dice for tasks and rounds. For example: If your dice showed 17 and 4 it could mean that you would do task 17 for 4 times! You never knew what was behind a number. The slaves also had to choose which Master should perform the task. The trick was that the Sirs had also choosen half of the tasks each. For example if my Master had choosen task 17 than I would get double the points if I choose Him for performing the task, otherwise only half. 

Meeting THE Dominus

Recently Master and I where in Berlin where we had the honor of meeting THE Dominus, Master André. As usually Master loves to keep me in the dark about whom we are meeting and when we are meeting other Doms or subs. This was also the case recently.

Serving Master D. for a Weekend (guest post)

It was a great and intense weekend of submitting and serving. I was introduced to the bdsm-lifestyle.

After a long ride I finally arrived at Master D.`s place. I had to get undressed, place ankle and wrist restraints with padlocks and was then welcomed by Master D. with a temporary slave chain collar. He also took my phone and valuables as I was not allowed to have them as long as He would allow it. I was surprisingly calm with that as I thought about that before how I would feel. But it showed my place even more and is an important aspect of power exchange in my opinion.

being a human urinal for guests

Recently Master had a guest Master invited. As usually I only knew someone was coming. But I never know if it would be a Dom or a sub and if I knew this person or not. It was one of the few true Doms that are living roughly close to use. We only had met this Sir recently and I was genuinly happy to see him again but thought a the same time: "Fuck, it is the sadist!" 

Another visit to Master D. and slave m.

For the first time since summer 2020 I have the honor of visiting Master D. and Slave M. again. As usual this visit was planned several months in advance which always brings with it the nice side effect of more intense communication during the time leading up to the visit. I am not good at keeping in touch virtually but with a fix visit planned for the near future we somehow manage to interact more frequently which helps to slowly increase the excitement and make the visit even more special.

Serving at a BDSM club

There are many ways how a slave can serve, espacialy at a BDSM event. I love to go to a good BDSM "party" where I can meet with like-minded people. Unfortunatly these events are rare. I am not seeking sex. I am seeking for "pure" BDSM and if I am honest a lot of focus on these parties are about sex. That is of course absolutely fine but it is not what I am search for.

Nevertheless it makes me extremly happy when I can attend a BDSM event where I can find like-minded Doms or slaves. This happened at our visit in Prag and as always my well trained slave served me and other doms as I expected!

We met Master Dansan and his slave as well as his BDSM friends at the event. My slave had to eat and drink out of the bowls and was of course not allowed to use furnitures, rules which applies always when possible - more about it here. Furthermore he brought drinks and stand in the queue for the doms we met. That is what a natural slave was born for: serving real men in every aspect. While the Superiors had a nice chat the slave stand in queue for drinks. He actively asked if they want something to drink. Lick boots to show his position as inferior. Furthermore he attentively but passively follows the conversation of the Doms to react if their comes up something where he can serve.

Visting Prague BDSM club

Every major city has kind of a BDSM club. Recently we had the pleasure of visiting the one in Prague. We would not have known about it, but we talked with a local Master who suggested the club for us and wanted to meet us there. If you don't follow him already, you can find him on twitter: @dansan_cz

Serving two Leathermasters

Recently I was part of an evening that came right out of a porn movie. Master invited another Leatermaster and I was allowed to serve them both.

Master had planned this evening and He usually only gives me short notice that another Master or slave is coming. So I knew someone was coming but I did not knew if I would serve two Doms or if Master would have two submissives serving Him. When the evening came Master had me put on my gimp mask and turned me into a Human table where the Doms could put down their drinks.

Being allowed as a guestslave to serve Master D.

right: slave m. / left: slave a.

I was still lying in bed after a long night, knowing that there was a quite normal Saturday ahead of me. This changed when I saw that Master D. texted me. As always I got instantly excited. He asked me what my plans for the night were because he and his slave booked a spontaneous trip to my city and wanted to visit a sex club.

I only met Master and his slave once before and already had the possibility to serve with his slave so I was pretty happy that he considered me serving him again.

Renting out my slaveobject to a Master colleague

You probably read my article about "borrowing my slave to another Master" (link) and "Why I would not rent out my slave, although I find the idea hot!" (link). I recommend to read them first before continuing reading this article. I had the chance to borrow out my slaveobject again to a well trusted and well known Master colleague. Of course, I seized that opportunity! First of all because I have been training and molding my slave for many years and therefore I am proud of my work and like to share it with Masters who see the value and work. Secondly, I believe it is good for the evolution and training of the slave to be sometimes ordered to serve another Master. 

Our transition from "part time" to "full time" BDSM-relationship.

A nice Mistress asked me how it has been at the beginning of our relationship when we changed from part time to full time BDSM-relationship.

I can reflect a little bit from my slave perspective about that. First of all I think it might be different from other BDSM couples, because we started as Master and slave and only later become a couple. We both always wanted to live the BDSM lifestyle. Master was seeking for a slave and I was seeking for an owner. In the beginning I only served part time. That means I only served on the weekends, during holidays etc.

Serving with a guest slave over the weekend

Last weekend a guest slave was invited by my Master to serve him for the weekend.
Because of the circumstances it was the first meeting of that kind in months. Most of the time we stayed indoors. But even without what is going on nowadays we would have stayed most of the time indoors, because my Master loves to dominate two slaves at the same moment and seems to enjoy every moment of it.
I knew which slave was coming and was ordered to prepare the apartment and other things. But Master did not give me any details what would happen.
I really loved to serve together with this slave and I was looking very much forward to it! I have known this slave as a friend for more than ten years. He has been there when I started to meet my Master, when we started a relationship and when we moved together. He is one of our few friends who is totally aware of our relationship in all its details and sometimes he asks if he can be a part of that for some days. Like this weekend.
My Master is great in using two slaves at the same moment.

Having slave n. visiting us

My slave is kneeling beside me - beside the couch - blindfolded holding my water and my aperitif before the first course will be served. Once a while I play with the nippels of my slave and his breathing changes. The breathing tells me he is enjoying my fingers on his nippels and I am sure his slavecock is pressing against his chastity cage. His only "job" is to hold my drinks while I am working on my computer. Meanwhile slave n. - the guestslave - is prepairing the first course in the kitchen. These moments are seldom and precious and I truely appreciate these. Finding a good guestslave with the - for me - right mindset or better: Who matches with my needs, is not easy. Having two slave on a "high level" is such an intense and wonderful experience which I truely enjoy!

Why I lock up the slave cock

First of all you have to know that my slave has to be chaste! He is not allowed to touch his cock and this for about a decade now. So when he receives an orgasm he only receives it through my hand. I see the slave orgasm as a tool to train a slave. It is a tool to reward a slave. Therefore a slave has to earn his orgasm by performing well and doing his duties. As you can read here, it takes some weeks that my slave earns enough points for an orgasm. If he does not do his slave duties/chores or performes bad it can take some more weeks until he receives the reward of an orgasm. Inbetween his orgasm I sometimes lock up the slavecock into a chasity device and in this article I want to explain why.

How I train my (or a) natural slave

When owning a slave, training is inevitable and essential. A natural slave wants to be used and to serve a Master. Therefore the Master has to train his slave.

First of all there are several reason swhy you shoud train your slave properly. The first and obvious point is that he should please you as you like it. The slave has to learn how you like the things done. How he should serve drinks. How he should lick your feet. How he has to ask and so on. Of course these are all topics which are important when having a new slave. So the first "phase" is teaching the slave the way you like the stuff done!

Being in lockdown with your Master

Like most of the world we also have been in a strict lockdown for several weeks. Those who follow us on twitter have seen some insights in this time but I wanted to reflect a little bit about how this time was and still is for us.
First of all we were very lucky and both of us could work from and we also kept our jobs so far. Of course it was different than before. Being together all day, working from home, not being able to meet other people, visit other places, got to restaurants etc.
My Master was great in this difficult situation! I love about him that he is a very responsible and a very calm Master and this made the situation for both of us more bearable.

Being ordered to serve another Master

Obviously this evening happened some time ago. But I still have it in vivid memory, so I decided to describe the first time my Master ordered me to go to another place to serve a Master without him. It is very rare my Master lets other Masters play with me or orders me to serve them. And even in those rare cases it only happens when my Master is present and in full control over the situation. So sending me to another Master and allow this Master to use me is probably the biggest level of trust my Master can give to another Master.

Dealing with mistakes

"A Master is always right" - ehm nope...
Today I want to write about the topic of making mistake as a Master. As all human beings also Masters and Mistresses are making mistakes. Especially with the hierarchy between a Master and his slave this can be poisonous for a D/s relationship when the slave is not allowed to speak openly about his feelings and thoughts.

First of all it is clear for my that a slave has to accept and conceal small mistake of a Master/Mistress. If I misspelled or mixed up something but it is clear what I meant then the slave has to proceed and act like there was no mistake.