BDSM Outfits

First of all: In my opinion the outfit does not matter when practicing BDSM, especially when living the BDSM-lifestyle but it can underline a certain vibe or situation. Futhermore there is no right or wrong about outfits! For me personally I like to be authentic. Because of that I mostly wear my everyday clothes when I use and train my slave. It is who I am. Of course I have a "dress-code" for my slave or for a guest slave: They have to be naked, wear cuffs and collar. 

The joy of licking boots

I recently was talking to another fellow sub about licking boots. He told me how one sub found joy in licking another sub's boots. I was thinking to myself that that would not work for me.

Reflection on 2021 by Master D.

One year has passed and my slave went deeper into submission and I believe he is finding his true self by serving. I see how happy he is and how well he grows into his being as slave which I believe he was born for.

How permanent chastity improved my life this year and other reflections on 2021

At the end of one year it is time to reflect on the last 12 months. They have been difficult for many of us for sure but I hope they also brought you some happy and good moments. 

Molding a slave

Soon it will be over a decade that I own my slave object. That means I am molding him to my needs and guide him deeper into his submission and this since soon over ten years. But what exactly means to mold and train a slave? What is the essential part of molding a slave and what exactly do I understand with molding?

How BDSM plays with stereotypes and roles of our society

Wether we want it or not our society has several roles, stereotypes and norms embedded. Some of those roles are quite old fashioned and have been fought by a lot of people over the last decades. I really love how one way to play with this roles is BDSM and how BDSM does not care about these roles or even more loves to change them in any way we want. For example in many cultures women are seen as the "weak" sex and for a long time there have been pictures that it is the womens role to serve men as housewives and to please their husbands any given time. Now I am really happy to see on twitter and other platforms a lot of women who turn this picture around. They look up the dicks of their husbands, they make it all about their lust and they make their husbands stay at home and take care of the cooking, cleaning etc. I really enjoy these pictures! 

Approaching a natural and experienced Master

I am a natural and experienced Master. I know who I am and what I want. I am sure that this makes a first approach for some slaves harder. Furthermore it is the nature of a natural slave that he does not want to bother a Master or waste his time and I like that attitude very, very much. On the other hand a slave should - in my opinion - be able to attract attention on a "subtle" level. I think it would be wrong to believe that you have to wait in silent until the Master finally contacts you. But where to draw the line?