The BDSM Lifestyle
This is the blog of a gay-couple who lives in an BDSM-Relationship and share their experience, minds and thoughts about the lifestyle in living BDSM.
Thursday, November 30, 2023
What happens when the slave is not in the "head space"?
Thursday, November 16, 2023
What I understand with financial domination
I understand with financial domination (findom) something else then the most people. Perhaps I should call it differently in my opinion like "economical domination"? Furtheremore there is a huge crux with financial domination which occurs with domination/ownership and exploitation!
How can you dominate or own a slave financialy without "exploiting" the slave. Perhaps I should call it: How can you dominate a slave financially in an ethical way?
Therefore this is a perfect topic for a blogpost.
Thursday, November 9, 2023
Domestic service - as non permament slave
Friday, October 20, 2023
Happy Locktober!
As you know, I don't receive full orgasms any more and I am locked most of the time. So one could ask, what Locktober means to me? Well physically not that much changes. I am locked and I don't get to cum. Mentally I don't have the thought that I have to make it to the end of October to receive an orgasm, because I won't get any.
But still Locktober is very important to me. It is so great to hear all the different thoughts of Doms and subs on chastity, highlighting all the different aspects of it. Seeing each and every day on social media a ton of locked dicks of subs. Surprisingly more and more Doms are locking themselves up too! Being chaste seems to bring joy for many. It is great hearing how people are happy, when they got past another day, hearing the encouraging words of others when someone struggels.
Thursday, October 12, 2023
Tips about finding your Master/slave
Thursday, October 5, 2023
Being in the dark about meetings
Thursday, September 28, 2023
Serving Master D. for a Weekend (guest post)
After a long ride I finally arrived at Master D.`s place. I had to get undressed, place ankle and wrist restraints with padlocks and was then welcomed by Master D. with a temporary slave chain collar. He also took my phone and valuables as I was not allowed to have them as long as He would allow it. I was surprisingly calm with that as I thought about that before how I would feel. But it showed my place even more and is an important aspect of power exchange in my opinion.