What happens when the slave is not in the "head space"?

One of our followers on Telegram asked us recently what happens if the slave was not in the submissive head space. First all of this happens very rarely. I consider myself as a natural born slave and my Master as a natural born Superior, so I am not in certain head spaces - I am just living my submissive live. Serving my Master is natural to me. But of course there are times when serving is harder, because of hard weeks at work, private problems, health reasons etc.

What I understand with financial domination

I have to be honest. It is a delicate topic but I want to give it a try - also because you wanted an article about my thoughts about Findom or my thoughts about the fincancially aspect in the BDSM Lifestyle:
I understand with financial domination (findom) something else then the most people. Perhaps I should call it differently in my opinion like "economical domination"? Furtheremore there is a huge crux with financial domination which occurs with domination/ownership and exploitation!
How can you dominate or own a slave financialy without "exploiting" the slave. Perhaps I should call it: How can you dominate a slave financially in an ethical way?
Therefore this is a perfect topic for a blogpost.

Domestic service - as non permament slave

One of our followers on telegram asked me to write more about "domestice service" and I am happy to apply. First of all domestic service is one of the greatest way on how to serve as submissve in my opinion. It is far from being sexual, but it constantly needs work and attention. Wheter you are a slave that only meets a Master occassionally or that you live with your Master, you can always serve domestic.

Happy Locktober!

As you know, I don't receive full orgasms any more and I am locked most of the time. So one could ask, what Locktober means to me? Well physically not that much changes. I am locked and I don't get to cum. Mentally I don't have the thought that I have to make it to the end of October to receive an orgasm, because I won't get any.

But still Locktober is very important to me. It is so great to hear all the different thoughts of Doms and subs on chastity, highlighting all the different aspects of it. Seeing each and every day on social media a ton of locked dicks of subs. Surprisingly more and more Doms are locking themselves up too! Being chaste seems to bring joy for many. It is great hearing how people are happy, when they got past another day, hearing the encouraging words of others when someone struggels. 

Tips about finding your Master/slave

I often get the question "What can I do to find a Master/slave?". I think it is time that I write my thoughts down. One thing in particular has to be clear: It needs your effort and of course luck.

Being in the dark about meetings

As you might have guessed: Master loves being in control and showing me that He is in control. One way He loves to show me that is by leaving me in darkness about meetings. Meetings with BDSM context to be precise. We share an online calender and I am ordered to keep it up to date always. So whenever I have to work late, there is an event or there is a vanilla meeting I have to write in the calender. So that Master knows which days and weekends are free for Him to plan. As soon as He has planned a BDSM meeting Sir marks the day in our shared calender as booked. So I know that I can't plan other events there. 

Serving Master D. for a Weekend (guest post)

It was a great and intense weekend of submitting and serving. I was introduced to the bdsm-lifestyle.

After a long ride I finally arrived at Master D.`s place. I had to get undressed, place ankle and wrist restraints with padlocks and was then welcomed by Master D. with a temporary slave chain collar. He also took my phone and valuables as I was not allowed to have them as long as He would allow it. I was surprisingly calm with that as I thought about that before how I would feel. But it showed my place even more and is an important aspect of power exchange in my opinion.