Saturday, January 6, 2024

Highlights of 2023 and outlook to 2024

Looking back on 2023 I can say it was over all a good year. We met new people in the BDSM world online and offline and managed to stay in contact with people we have been knowing for years. If I think about it, there were also several highlights in this year. This summer we managed to perform more outdoor events than ever!

Thursday, December 21, 2023

Jealousy in a D/s relationship? - Slaves article

Can there be jealousy in a D/s relationship? And if so - is it any different from any non D/s relationship? 

First of all I think every couple experiences jealousy totally differently, wheter you are gay/straight and vanilla/kinky. So I can only talk about how I experience it and see it with others.

The rules are clear: Master is free in His sex and "play"-life, His slave is not. So Sir has no reason to ask me or even tell me when He fucks or uses another sub. We are both totally clear about that! On the other hand I have no say in my sex or "play"-life, it is totally controlled by Master.

Saturday, December 16, 2023

The joy of being a slave during winter

I honestly love winter time. I don't need winter every day for 365 days a year. But I really enjoy those few months we get winter a year. There are several reasons for that. First of all because it is cold outside and it gets dark early Master prefers to stay home more often than in summer. That means a lot more time for His slave to worship Him! Of course I worship and serve Master every day. But in winter I get to worship/lick Sir more often than in summer. 

Thursday, November 30, 2023

What happens when the slave is not in the "head space"?

One of our followers on Telegram asked us recently what happens if the slave was not in the submissive head space. First all of this happens very rarely. I consider myself as a natural born slave and my Master as a natural born Superior, so I am not in certain head spaces - I am just living my submissive live. Serving my Master is natural to me. But of course there are times when serving is harder, because of hard weeks at work, private problems, health reasons etc.

Thursday, November 16, 2023

What I understand with financial domination

I have to be honest. It is a delicate topic but I want to give it a try - also because you wanted an article about my thoughts about Findom or my thoughts about the fincancially aspect in the BDSM Lifestyle:
I understand with financial domination (findom) something else then the most people. Perhaps I should call it differently in my opinion like "economical domination"? Furtheremore there is a huge crux with financial domination which occurs with domination/ownership and exploitation!
How can you dominate or own a slave financialy without "exploiting" the slave. Perhaps I should call it: How can you dominate a slave financially in an ethical way?
Therefore this is a perfect topic for a blogpost.

Thursday, November 9, 2023

Domestic service - as non permament slave

One of our followers on telegram asked me to write more about "domestice service" and I am happy to apply. First of all domestic service is one of the greatest way on how to serve as submissve in my opinion. It is far from being sexual, but it constantly needs work and attention. Wheter you are a slave that only meets a Master occassionally or that you live with your Master, you can always serve domestic.

Friday, October 20, 2023

Happy Locktober!

As you know, I don't receive full orgasms any more and I am locked most of the time. So one could ask, what Locktober means to me? Well physically not that much changes. I am locked and I don't get to cum. Mentally I don't have the thought that I have to make it to the end of October to receive an orgasm, because I won't get any.

But still Locktober is very important to me. It is so great to hear all the different thoughts of Doms and subs on chastity, highlighting all the different aspects of it. Seeing each and every day on social media a ton of locked dicks of subs. Surprisingly more and more Doms are locking themselves up too! Being chaste seems to bring joy for many. It is great hearing how people are happy, when they got past another day, hearing the encouraging words of others when someone struggels.