Guest post - Reflection before and during my last visit

At home

It is almost exactly one year since I last visited Master D. We had to postpone the visit due to lockdown but luckily could find an alternative date only one month later than originally planned. It is not easy to put into words how I feel about this visit. It will be my first trip leaving the country since March. Normally I am really excited to leave the house and see friends and other places. But somehow lockdown and travel restrictions have become so normal that it also feels a bit weird to travel again. I do not like wearing a mask on the train (not that type, at least) and suddenly one is wondering what will happen at the border where normally borders only existed in an atlas. On the other hand this is finally something to look forward to! Something that I missed a lot over the last months.

Having slave n. visiting us

My slave is kneeling beside me - beside the couch - blindfolded holding my water and my aperitif before the first course will be served. Once a while I play with the nippels of my slave and his breathing changes. The breathing tells me he is enjoying my fingers on his nippels and I am sure his slavecock is pressing against his chastity cage. His only "job" is to hold my drinks while I am working on my computer. Meanwhile slave n. - the guestslave - is prepairing the first course in the kitchen. These moments are seldom and precious and I truely appreciate these. Finding a good guestslave with the - for me - right mindset or better: Who matches with my needs, is not easy. Having two slave on a "high level" is such an intense and wonderful experience which I truely enjoy!

My Master’s feet

It may sound strange: I am not a foot fetishist, but I adore my Master’s feet and I could lick and kiss them all day!

Some find feet very erotic because they are feet. I for myself find my Master’s feet erotic, because they are the feet of my Master! 

From the very beginning my Master loved to show me my position as slave, my position as inferior male. And what could show that better than having me at his feet? So from the very beginning as my Master’s slave he let me lick, kiss, massage and overall worship his feet. 

Why I lock up the slave cock

First of all you have to know that my slave has to be chaste! He is not allowed to touch his cock and this for about a decade now. So when he receives an orgasm he only receives it through my hand. I see the slave orgasm as a tool to train a slave. It is a tool to reward a slave. Therefore a slave has to earn his orgasm by performing well and doing his duties. As you can read here, it takes some weeks that my slave earns enough points for an orgasm. If he does not do his slave duties/chores or performes bad it can take some more weeks until he receives the reward of an orgasm. Inbetween his orgasm I sometimes lock up the slavecock into a chasity device and in this article I want to explain why.

The importance of rules and routines in a BDSM-relationship

I think every relationship has some kind of routine in it and so has our BDSM-relationship. But I think it is more important to have routines in a BDSM-relationship to keep it from turning vanilla like some people experience it.
I am talking about routines in a positive way and not in negative one. Of course a couple can be stuck in a boring routine. But I am talking about a BDSM-routine which is accompanied by a set of rules that helps us integrate BDSM  in our everyday life and is not questioned.

Over the years my Master has determined some of those routines, I have suggested some and some routines became routines over the time. I want to give you two examples of everyday life routines.

How I train my (or a) natural slave

When owning a slave, training is inevitable and essential. A natural slave wants to be used and to serve a Master. Therefore the Master has to train his slave.

First of all there are several reason swhy you shoud train your slave properly. The first and obvious point is that he should please you as you like it. The slave has to learn how you like the things done. How he should serve drinks. How he should lick your feet. How he has to ask and so on. Of course these are all topics which are important when having a new slave. So the first "phase" is teaching the slave the way you like the stuff done!

Serving a Mistress as gay slave.

One user asked the interesting question how I had reacted if my Master had ordered me to serve a Mistress instead of a Master. This is such a good question that my Master ordered me to answer it in a blogpost, which I am happy to oblige.
My answer is very simple: If my Master orderes me to serve a Mistress, of course I would follow the order and I would submit and serve. I trust my Master when he allows other male Doms to play with me, the same would apply to Mistresses.