Answering 3 BDSM questions

This time I want to answer three questions that I received from a slave, Pup Argos, via Twitter. I made a deal with him to answer them via our blog when he in return will write a guest post in our blog! He agreed, so here are the questions with my Master thougts:

1. "Why is so difficult to find REAL Masters? Nowadays we almost only find FinDoms that don't live it for real."

Fucking a slave

After all I decided to write about the subject of fucking a slave. If you read some article on our blog you know that sex - in my point of view - has nothing or at least only very little to do with BDSM. As for me BDSM has to do with domination, submission and trust! So there are of course two main forms of fucking a slave. The oral and the anal fuck and I want to write in this article about my point of view about fucking a slave and what it means to me. To clearify fucking a slave does not mean that it has to end with an orgasm but you will read more in my article.

What it is like to love a slave

What is it like to dominate the slave you love? It is an intensive gesture of love, trust and devotion. For me personaly it makes it more intense when love (or for guestslaves: affection) is involved. This is another dimension of domination. A more intense form of BDSM. Do not get me wrong: I also really enjoy having an object (as slave)! Ordering a lickslave to my hotel room and get my feet licked for hours. But here is the difference: When dominating someone longer than one day or longer than 4-6 hours the slave will loose the characteristic of an "object" for me. You use an object but you will not take "special" care of the needs (eat, drink, piss). So the interaction with an "object" is very limited and therefore no or very less affection is needed. With the rising of interactions I want "feedback", I want a dynamic which requires at least affection. Or in other words: When I order an guestslave (as object) to serve me I will not build a bond or train him.

Fantasies I would love to perform

A Master friend recently asked me what fantasies I had which would want to perform.
That was an interesting question to me, which I could not answer easily, because I'm already the slave of my husband and in this way my biggest dream has become reality and on the other hand I'm here for making his fantasies reality.

But of course there are still some things in my mind.

Owning more than one slave

left, my slave - right, a guestslave

I received via twitter a very interessting question on my #FindOutFridayBDSM event.
The question was: If I would consider to own more than one slave. This is a very interessting question and because ot that I gave it an entiry blogpost. So enjoy!

Ordering your slave to do a writing task

I enjoy to order my slave(s) to perform writing tasks. It is something really intimate. Perhaps you are now perplex about this statement and I can understand why. But to read a story or the diary of a/my slave is something intimate. You get the possibility to understand the slave's thoughts, feelings and in some kind his mindset. I love to read a honest written slave diary or a fictional slave story which caomes from the mind (and heart) of the slave. Furthermore you get the possibility to understand your slave more and that helps you to train your slave in a more efficient way. But you can also use a writing task as a punishment tool. So let's discuss the different kind of writing tasks:

Is a Master allowed to have weaknesses?

I received an interesting question on my post: "What it is like to love your Master." An anonymous guy (I just assume it is a guy) asked:
"Hi, when you live with someone 24/7 and know all his strengths and weaknesses, how can you show him utterly respect as your Master? Don’t you see him as a simple man sometimes? Thank you for your answer." For me the question is quite simply answered.