the BDSM paradox

Today I want to make some thoughts about the - I call it - BDSM paradox. I remember chats with slaves who wrote in the first line something like "you can do EVERYTHING you want with me, Sir". Let´s be honest: Every person has a certain (healthy) limit. Does it mean a Master can do EVERYTHING he wants? No, especially when you train a slave and guide him into submission. I like the analogy of building a house.

Involving vanillas "indirectly"

After posting a picture of my slave serving me in our holidays on twitter, a follower asked me if we tidy up the room from BDSM stuff. In that moment the idea of writting a blogpost about involving vanillas into the BDSM world came up. So here is my view on involving vanillas into BDSM.

How the different regimes/protocols evolved over the years

One Master on twitter recently asked how Master developed the different regimes/protocols over the years and if there where any dead ends.

I am very to answer this question, because it is an interesting topic and on the other hand I am happy to serve this Sir by answering His question.

Being allowed as a guestslave to serve Master D.

right: slave m. / left: slave a.

I was still lying in bed after a long night, knowing that there was a quite normal Saturday ahead of me. This changed when I saw that Master D. texted me. As always I got instantly excited. He asked me what my plans for the night were because he and his slave booked a spontaneous trip to my city and wanted to visit a sex club.

I only met Master and his slave once before and already had the possibility to serve with his slave so I was pretty happy that he considered me serving him again.

We are enjoying summer

It is time for our "summer break". As every year we take some time for ourself and enjoy the summer. We will be back on the 1st. of September with a new blogentry and hopefully a lot of new ideas what to write.

Don't be sad, during that time we are still working on new blogentries and we will be back soon! In the meantime you can still browse through over 200 blogentries we wrote. enjoy.

 

And of course you can follow us on twitter where we regulary tweet about our livestyle Follow @MasterHusband and Follow @GaySlaveHusband

Why I decided to keep my slave locked permanently

I never thought or intended to keep my slave permantly locked. On the contrary: I always thought keeping his useless slavecock "free" but of course chaste has more benefits then locking it away. I have to admit: I was not fully right.

I noticed that my slave is slightly more submissive and gets more often reminded of its position during the day when its locked. Furthermore I noticed that its slightly more focused on serving me when wearing his cage. Do not get me wrong: My slave is always submissive and always aware about its position. 

What does active submission mean to me?

One of the Doms I follow on twitter and I admire most asked me how I use active submission to be eager and obedient at the same time. 

That is a very good question! Some people would say to be active and to be submissive contradicts each other. I think there are many Doms that enjoy a totally obedient slave. A slave that only waits for the next order and only fullfills the very certain order and waits silently until the next order is given. Then there are surely Doms that enjoy an active submissve slave that is active around the house, makes suggestions offers their holes from time to time etc. I think Master and me are somewhere inbetween.