Thursday, May 16, 2024

Punishment - in a fair D/s lifestyle

Rules, orders and structures are an essential part in a D/s dynamic and it is normal that mistake are part of our human being. I own my slave for over a decade now and it is absolut normal that sometimes a mistake happen despite how well a slave is trained and what quality the slave reached.

Thursday, May 9, 2024

creative ways of serving

There are so many ways of serving. There are so many ways of a submissive being useful for a Dom. The two main ways of service seem to be sexual service and financial services, when you look online. So that is why I decided to focus on the other ways of being useful, especially when they are a little bit more creative:

Sunday, April 28, 2024

Finally - the joy of serving outdoor again!

I actually love autumn and winter time. You spend much more time indoors which gives a lot more opportunities of serving and lot more possibilities of using candles! But now as spring and summer are here and approaching the way of serving changes and the few possibilities of serving outdoor are opening up again. I really love to serve outdoor. It is so rare of course. Cause you need to find the right place and time, cause we do not want to scare of vanillas. I think this makes it special to me. 

Thursday, April 11, 2024

Getting used to be bred and milked

Master is in charge of my sexuality for more than a decade. Only Sir decides when I get fucked and by whom. Same goes for the stimulation I receive and the stimulation I give others. It is totally under Sirs control and functions on command. I noticed over the years that I am getting trained more and more like an animal and start to function as one.

Thursday, April 4, 2024

BDSM & Kissing

Two people kissing is a symbol of desire, affection if not love but in BDSM a kiss can mean slighly something different and of course the kiss is different. Moreover it is mostly an unequal kiss which gets not reciprocated. A slave kissing the boots or the feets of a Superior clearly shows his place and acceptence in the hierarchy. Being the giver while the Superior accepts it and takes the affection he receives. Therefore kissing a slave "equaly" (on the mouth or with tongue) always felt wrong for me. The appropriate "kiss" towards a slave would be to spit into his mounth.

Thursday, March 28, 2024

serving without any sexual attraction

What is it like to serve without being attracted to the dominat part at all? So far this is mostly a theoretical question for me. For me serving and sympathy go together. I only served Doms so far, which I trusted, found likeable and in case of my Master love from the bottom of my heart. Sure I also met the occasional session Master when I was younger which I didn't meet again after one session, cause we didn't vibe. But this was always after the first contact. Also all the Master guests my Sir invited over time fell into this category, cause Sir usually has a very good knowledge of human nature. But what would it be like to serve someone you don't find attractive at all?

Thursday, March 14, 2024

slave games

What happens when you have a creative Master who invites another Master and another slave?

Nothing good for the slave indeed! Recently Master suprised me with a visit of guests. But the twist was that not only another Master was invited but also another slave who both didn't knew each other! I can tell you in another post more about the evening. But the highlight were definitly the slave games! Master had designed a game where I and the other sub had to roll the dice for tasks and rounds. For example: If your dice showed 17 and 4 it could mean that you would do task 17 for 4 times! You never knew what was behind a number. The slaves also had to choose which Master should perform the task. The trick was that the Sirs had also choosen half of the tasks each. For example if my Master had choosen task 17 than I would get double the points if I choose Him for performing the task, otherwise only half.