Milking and "slave orgasm"

As you all know since this year I keep my slave "absoluetly" chaste. Therefore he does not receive an orgasm. I see and feel that his sexual energy is usefully rerouted and focused on his slave being and his service towards me. His sexual pleasure is to serve his superior. It is important for me to keep my beloved slave healthy therefore I stimulate his prostate here and there. I "milk" my slave on a regularly base but not to often. The goal is that my slave's prostate gets stimulated and emptied without having any kind of "joy".  There are two ways to achieve that.

Appearing as vanilla but still having my Master in charge

There are moments where we have to appear as vanillas and can't live our BDSM lifestyle the way we normally do. This might be because of work, sickness etc. But mostly it is because we are with family or friends or we are travelling and at an environment where it is not so easy to live as Master and slave.

Enjoying the summer

As you probably have noticed we are actually enjoying the summer after a hard "corona"-winter. 

We will be back with new articles in September!

If you have suggestions about topics you want to read about let us know in the comments below.

Have a great summer!

 

 

 

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Healthy BDSM-relationship

In a previous blogpost my slave mentioned that he finds joy in serving Superiors. Therefore, I wanted to raise awareness about the topic of “healthy” serving and a healthy D/s relationship. I mentioned in many of my blogpost that BDSM – especially the BDSM-lifestyle - is a symbiosis and therefore it has to be kept on a healthy level. But what is healthy and what is toxic?

Serving Doms as lifegoal

I was always a service oriented sub. Whenever I was in contact with a Dom I never wanted to get fucked or suck dick, I always wanted to serve and make the life of the Dom better. Only few understood that and only few were able to use and enjoy the services I craved to provide. My Master is one of them. He enjoys that I take care of all his needs and makes sure I take away as many chores from him as possible. This was always in me and I am the happiest slave on Earth that I found a Master who enjoys that also the same way as I do. I did not think that that was possible but it got more intense, especially within the last year.

Guiding a natural slave

When you find a natural slave you will start to mold him and work on him. Guiding him into his being as a slave. Owning a natural slave is a huge responsibility. Of course one of the benefits of owning and molding a slave is that you use your slave for your desires. But keep in mind that you have a kind of a "contract" with your slave - a healthy BDSM-relationship is a symbiosis. He has also desires - "slave" desires which (hopefully) fit to your "Master" desires. The desire to be useful to his Master. The desire to serve and submit. The desire that he can trust his Master 1000%. The desire of being guided into his submissivness - into his real being. I guide and mold my slave since he decided to be my owned slave. I guided him deeper into his natural being as a slave - which I think he was born for! But what means to guide a slave? I decided to dedicate this blogpost to this topic.

Slave luxuries

As I am now permanently chaste I can't work for orgasms anymore. So Master adapted the system of my bonus points where I can still collect bonus points. But instead of getting an orgasm for them I can now trade them for slave luxuries. Master has decided that some things in my life are non essential slave luxuries for which I have to work. Things that are totally normal for my Master or any other free man but not for me.