Thursday, July 11, 2024

Follower question: What rights and privileges does the slave have?

Recently a follower asked if I as slave had any rights and privileges like: watching Netflix, laying on the couch, buying stuff, food I want, etc. He was courious cause he thought one couldn't be kinky all the time. 

I can imagine that it is hard for some people to imagine how a 24/7 BDSM life is, but it is acutally something Master and I crave and are trying to make work. Of course we are having times when things are not into that much D/s, for example on vacation, with vanillas etc. But most of the time a lot of different rules apply. To answer the questions of our follower:

Thursday, June 20, 2024

Mistakes and Punishment: Lessons from Serving as a Guest Slave

I had the honor and pleasure of serving Master D as a guest slave. The experience was both enlightening and deeply inspiring. As a dedicated kinkster, I have always sought to understand the intricate dynamics of a Master-slave relationship. Despite my efforts, however, I discovered that there is always room for growth and improvement. Here are some key takeaways from my experience.

Thursday, June 13, 2024

The bitter sweet joy and pain of missing Master

"What?" - you might think. "How can it be a "bitter sweet joy" if you miss your Master? Well - let me explain. When Master and I are apart I of course miss Master a lot. It is like a part of me is missing and there are so many moments I would love to share with Sir, feel Him and be of service to Him. But of course there can be quite a joy of still serving Him, even if Sir is not around. Being locked for Him, performing chorse for Him, eating from the floor if possible etc. Such things deepen the relation, even if Sir is not around. At the same time I look very much forward to the moment when Sir comes back, I think about how Sir might use slave, what we might do etc. and how I could greet Sir perfectly.

Thursday, May 23, 2024

Being happy when Sir receives appropiate service from others

I have already written about the topic of jealousy in the a D/s relationship and that I actually think it is hot when Master uses other slaves. But today I want to focus on a certain aspect of that: Master receiving good service.

Thursday, May 16, 2024

Punishment - in a fair D/s lifestyle

Rules, orders and structures are an essential part in a D/s dynamic and it is normal that mistake are part of our human being. I own my slave for over a decade now and it is absolut normal that sometimes a mistake happen despite how well a slave is trained and what quality the slave reached.

Thursday, May 9, 2024

creative ways of serving

There are so many ways of serving. There are so many ways of a submissive being useful for a Dom. The two main ways of service seem to be sexual service and financial services, when you look online. So that is why I decided to focus on the other ways of being useful, especially when they are a little bit more creative:

Sunday, April 28, 2024

Finally - the joy of serving outdoor again!

I actually love autumn and winter time. You spend much more time indoors which gives a lot more opportunities of serving and lot more possibilities of using candles! But now as spring and summer are here and approaching the way of serving changes and the few possibilities of serving outdoor are opening up again. I really love to serve outdoor. It is so rare of course. Cause you need to find the right place and time, cause we do not want to scare of vanillas. I think this makes it special to me.