Showing my slave status in small ways

My status as slave to my Master is kind of obvious. At least when my Master and me are alone. I am naked, wearing cuffs and collar. Even when we are not alone I am still wearing my slave tattoo, I am most of the time locked and all the time chaste. But regardless of that my slave status is quite clear to me and my Master we both also enjoy those small details in everyday life where I can show and proove my inferiority and submissivness to him. 

Love and BDSM

I heard that some Masters can not dominate a slave when they have affection for them or love them. I have to admit I am different. I want to build up a minimum affection and grow a "relationship" to (some) slaves. Of course not the kind of "equal" relationship you think perhaps. As I discribed in earlier blogpost: Once a slave kneeled before me I can never unsee him as something else as a slave. Does that mean I can£t build friendship? No but it is an unequal friendship. Some slaves are good friends, some are more like an object were I do not chit-chat and my owned slave is my husband which I extremely love!

Why I like serving in winter more than serving in summer

As the days grow colder and it gets dark earlier every day we are all sure: Winter is coming!

So I thought to reflect a little bit on my the differences in my slavelife between winter and summer and why I like the winter time more! As you know I am always naked and I am only allowed to wear cuffs, cage and slavechain. So in summer it is great during the high temperatures. But in winter I could get cold more easily. So it is great we have an apartment that is very easily and very efficiently to heat, so that I can stay naked all the time. Of course I can always ask my Master for a blanket when I am at his feet if I am cold, for example when we are watching TV. 

Forcing in slavetrainings

I decided to write about the topic of "forcing" a slave. In a BDSM-relationship or in slave trainings you sometimes force the slave to do or endure things he perhaps does not want to do. It is in the nature of a D/s relationship. Of course there is also a "but" which I want to explain further.

Running errands for your Master

Running errands is part of our everyday life. Between work and family we all have to find time to perform different tasks. The good thing when you own a slave is that you can either order your slave to do those errands for you or you have trained and molded him over the years that he is capable of doing them on his own. At some point he will foresee the tasks you want him to do and will perform them without you having to tell you about them.

Privacy for an owned slaves

Privacy is an import part of all our lives. Having privacy and "secrets" is an import part of our rights. No matter if you are a Superior, inferior or vanilla. So the question comes up: What's about privacy for a slave towards his Master? In todays blogpost I want to discuss and show my view about this topic.

How important are gears and toys in BDSM?

Let's be honest. BDSM gears and toys are expensive and cannot be affored by everybody. Furthermore they need a lot of space in your house and your closet. And if you have many vanilla visitors you are currently worrying how to put away all the stuff so that nobody sees it. When you browse social media you often see the perfect dungeon and Master and slave in very hot gear and you might ask youself if you need more of that stuff and how you can afford it.