Follower question: Thoughts on being cum denied

One of our followers asked me on my thoughts of bein cum denied: "How it started until today, what cumming was meaning for him before and what it means to be denied today."

I am happy to reflect on that a little more! First of all before I met Master I usually masturbated once a day. When I was bored or stressed probably twice. It was a habit like for many guys my age and I didn't pay actually that much attention to it.

The report of a guest slave

i had again the honour to visit Master D. and his slave for a whole weekend of service and submission. One year ago this slave already visited both, but this time was different.

It was the first time i received permission to serve Master D. by my own Master and they both had negotiated conditions before. So i was not as free as the year before to decide if i go to visit and serve. My Master expected to grant Master D. best service and represent him well.

Follower question: What rights and privileges does the slave have?

Recently a follower asked if I as slave had any rights and privileges like: watching Netflix, laying on the couch, buying stuff, food I want, etc. He was courious cause he thought one couldn't be kinky all the time. 

I can imagine that it is hard for some people to imagine how a 24/7 BDSM life is, but it is acutally something Master and I crave and are trying to make work. Of course we are having times when things are not into that much D/s, for example on vacation, with vanillas etc. But most of the time a lot of different rules apply. To answer the questions of our follower:

Mistakes and Punishment: Lessons from Serving as a Guest Slave

I had the honor and pleasure of serving Master D as a guest slave. The experience was both enlightening and deeply inspiring. As a dedicated kinkster, I have always sought to understand the intricate dynamics of a Master-slave relationship. Despite my efforts, however, I discovered that there is always room for growth and improvement. Here are some key takeaways from my experience.

The bitter sweet joy and pain of missing Master

"What?" - you might think. "How can it be a "bitter sweet joy" if you miss your Master? Well - let me explain. When Master and I are apart I of course miss Master a lot. It is like a part of me is missing and there are so many moments I would love to share with Sir, feel Him and be of service to Him. But of course there can be quite a joy of still serving Him, even if Sir is not around. Being locked for Him, performing chorse for Him, eating from the floor if possible etc. Such things deepen the relation, even if Sir is not around. At the same time I look very much forward to the moment when Sir comes back, I think about how Sir might use slave, what we might do etc. and how I could greet Sir perfectly.

Being happy when Sir receives appropiate service from others

I have already written about the topic of jealousy in the a D/s relationship and that I actually think it is hot when Master uses other slaves. But today I want to focus on a certain aspect of that: Master receiving good service.

Punishment - in a fair D/s lifestyle

Rules, orders and structures are an essential part in a D/s dynamic and it is normal that mistake are part of our human being. I own my slave for over a decade now and it is absolut normal that sometimes a mistake happen despite how well a slave is trained and what quality the slave reached.