The report of a guest slave

i had again the honour to visit Master D. and his slave for a whole weekend of service and submission. One year ago this slave already visited both, but this time was different.

It was the first time i received permission to serve Master D. by my own Master and they both had negotiated conditions before. So i was not as free as the year before to decide if i go to visit and serve. My Master expected to grant Master D. best service and represent him well.

Follower question: What rights and privileges does the slave have?

Recently a follower asked if I as slave had any rights and privileges like: watching Netflix, laying on the couch, buying stuff, food I want, etc. He was courious cause he thought one couldn't be kinky all the time. 

I can imagine that it is hard for some people to imagine how a 24/7 BDSM life is, but it is acutally something Master and I crave and are trying to make work. Of course we are having times when things are not into that much D/s, for example on vacation, with vanillas etc. But most of the time a lot of different rules apply. To answer the questions of our follower:

Mistakes and Punishment: Lessons from Serving as a Guest Slave

I had the honor and pleasure of serving Master D as a guest slave. The experience was both enlightening and deeply inspiring. As a dedicated kinkster, I have always sought to understand the intricate dynamics of a Master-slave relationship. Despite my efforts, however, I discovered that there is always room for growth and improvement. Here are some key takeaways from my experience.

The bitter sweet joy and pain of missing Master

"What?" - you might think. "How can it be a "bitter sweet joy" if you miss your Master? Well - let me explain. When Master and I are apart I of course miss Master a lot. It is like a part of me is missing and there are so many moments I would love to share with Sir, feel Him and be of service to Him. But of course there can be quite a joy of still serving Him, even if Sir is not around. Being locked for Him, performing chorse for Him, eating from the floor if possible etc. Such things deepen the relation, even if Sir is not around. At the same time I look very much forward to the moment when Sir comes back, I think about how Sir might use slave, what we might do etc. and how I could greet Sir perfectly.

Being happy when Sir receives appropiate service from others

I have already written about the topic of jealousy in the a D/s relationship and that I actually think it is hot when Master uses other slaves. But today I want to focus on a certain aspect of that: Master receiving good service.

Punishment - in a fair D/s lifestyle

Rules, orders and structures are an essential part in a D/s dynamic and it is normal that mistake are part of our human being. I own my slave for over a decade now and it is absolut normal that sometimes a mistake happen despite how well a slave is trained and what quality the slave reached.

creative ways of serving

There are so many ways of serving. There are so many ways of a submissive being useful for a Dom. The two main ways of service seem to be sexual service and financial services, when you look online. So that is why I decided to focus on the other ways of being useful, especially when they are a little bit more creative:

Finally - the joy of serving outdoor again!

I actually love autumn and winter time. You spend much more time indoors which gives a lot more opportunities of serving and lot more possibilities of using candles! But now as spring and summer are here and approaching the way of serving changes and the few possibilities of serving outdoor are opening up again. I really love to serve outdoor. It is so rare of course. Cause you need to find the right place and time, cause we do not want to scare of vanillas. I think this makes it special to me. 

Getting used to be bred and milked

Master is in charge of my sexuality for more than a decade. Only Sir decides when I get fucked and by whom. Same goes for the stimulation I receive and the stimulation I give others. It is totally under Sirs control and functions on command. I noticed over the years that I am getting trained more and more like an animal and start to function as one.

BDSM & Kissing

Two people kissing is a symbol of desire, affection if not love but in BDSM a kiss can mean slighly something different and of course the kiss is different. Moreover it is mostly an unequal kiss which gets not reciprocated. A slave kissing the boots or the feets of a Superior clearly shows his place and acceptence in the hierarchy. Being the giver while the Superior accepts it and takes the affection he receives. Therefore kissing a slave "equaly" (on the mouth or with tongue) always felt wrong for me. The appropriate "kiss" towards a slave would be to spit into his mounth.

serving without any sexual attraction

What is it like to serve without being attracted to the dominat part at all? So far this is mostly a theoretical question for me. For me serving and sympathy go together. I only served Doms so far, which I trusted, found likeable and in case of my Master love from the bottom of my heart. Sure I also met the occasional session Master when I was younger which I didn't meet again after one session, cause we didn't vibe. But this was always after the first contact. Also all the Master guests my Sir invited over time fell into this category, cause Sir usually has a very good knowledge of human nature. But what would it be like to serve someone you don't find attractive at all?

slave games

What happens when you have a creative Master who invites another Master and another slave?

Nothing good for the slave indeed! Recently Master suprised me with a visit of guests. But the twist was that not only another Master was invited but also another slave who both didn't knew each other! I can tell you in another post more about the evening. But the highlight were definitly the slave games! Master had designed a game where I and the other sub had to roll the dice for tasks and rounds. For example: If your dice showed 17 and 4 it could mean that you would do task 17 for 4 times! You never knew what was behind a number. The slaves also had to choose which Master should perform the task. The trick was that the Sirs had also choosen half of the tasks each. For example if my Master had choosen task 17 than I would get double the points if I choose Him for performing the task, otherwise only half. 

Meeting THE Dominus

Recently Master and I where in Berlin where we had the honor of meeting THE Dominus, Master André. As usually Master loves to keep me in the dark about whom we are meeting and when we are meeting other Doms or subs. This was also the case recently.

Highlights of 2023 and outlook to 2024

Looking back on 2023 I can say it was over all a good year. We met new people in the BDSM world online and offline and managed to stay in contact with people we have been knowing for years. If I think about it, there were also several highlights in this year. This summer we managed to perform more outdoor events than ever!