Thursday, February 25, 2021

Under HIS boots.

Master and slaves and their boots are obviously a huge topic in the BDSM society and a big turn on for many people. For many it is very important what boots you wear and how you take care of them. 

I don't want to focus on boots in general, there are others who can do that better. But I want to reflect a little bit more on my personal view on boots.

Thursday, February 18, 2021

Submitting to a Master

In my last blogpost I wrote about "equal rights" for slaves. I mentioned that I see slaves - who did not submit to me - as equal persons and therefore not as slaves. I want to take up the subject of submitting and show that there are several deeps of submission towards a Master. In my opinion only a small word is enough to show that you are submitting to a Master.

Thursday, February 11, 2021

"How shall this slave address you, Sir?" - Appropiate BDSM-communication


Communication is essential. This is valid for every relationship and even more for BDSM-relationships of every kind. All of us know some rules of how to communicate with each other and what we think is rude and what we think is appropiate. It can be a little bit more complicated when it comes to BDSM communication. So I have decieded to talk about some general ideas.

Thursday, February 4, 2021

Being a sadistic Master

I realisted I never wrote about the topic of being a sadistic Master. Of course there are a lot of facets in sadism and a lot of factors you have to look at. I believe all Masters are at least a tiny little bit sadists. So lets dig deeper into the topic.
To tie up a slave and then using him for my pleasure makes me happy and of course a sadist. Twisting the slavenipples, taking the slave by his balls, using wax over his body and a lot of other practices which inflicts pain to the slave. So why do I like this? I have to admit: I do not know. I was born with it.

Thursday, January 28, 2021

Why I am happy that my Master enjoys my obedience.

I consider myself as a natural slave who wants to please a Master by following his orders to the point. I was quite surprised when I found out that not every Master wanted that.
Some Masters like their slaves disobedient and it took me some time to know why they preferred their slaves like that. I think there are two reasons why some Masters and slaves prefer some kind of disobedience over obediences.
I think reason number one is: Showing or feeling power.

Thursday, January 21, 2021

Do slaves have "equal rights"?

I recently chatted with a slave and he nailed it about the topic of - lets call it - "slave-rights". I had the same view about it but I never could phrase it in words. The slave used the term "equal rights but unequal function/purposes".
So yes I am dominating slaves, hitting them with my riding crop, using their slavebody for my pleasure and train them to serve me properly. As I mentioned in my previous blogentries slaves are hierachically below me and have to obey my orders BUT slaves also have "equal rights". For me these "equal rights" refer to respecting the slaves as human beings!

Thursday, January 14, 2021

The "joy" of a ruined orgasm

I have to stay chaste all the time. I can "earn" my orgasms, but only my Master can give them to me and only he decides when I receive them even after I have earned one orgasm. In the last years my Master made it harder for me to earn an orgasm and so I have to stay chaste longer and longer. And more often I am receiving a ruined orgasm instead of a full orgasm. 

Thursday, January 7, 2021

Serving a Master online

I receive here and there requests from slaves if they can serve me online or if I do online domination. I personaly prefer to dominate slaves in real life. The real interaction - where you build up a Master-slaves bond - gives me the joy which fulfills my inner need to dominate and use slaves. Nevertheless I am a natural Master and therefore I am also dominant online and I expect respect from slaves when they are writing with me in the online world but I don't do "online domination" in form of "online sessions". Yes I give here and there orders to slaves but not in a "online session" way.