Master Emblem/Logo

For many years I have been thinking about an own emblem/logo which represents me and matches with my personality. An emblem/logo which should also be inconspicuous.

The idea of an own Master emblem was since the  beginning in me. For me it has also to do with style. It can be very stylish and authentic to have an own emblem. It gives the whole situation a very personal touch. As you read in previous posts BDSM has for me less to do with sex. It is a form of lifestyle, something esthetic.
Sitting in a chair, drinking wine out of a glass which is engraved with the Master emblem and reading a book, while my slave is on all four licking my feed in an esthetic posture! That picture represents for me BDSM lifestyle. And if the glass is empty my slave has to refill it. If he does not see it in time (that the glass is empty) or his posture is not proper he receives a whiplash.

Signs that you are a natural Master

Today I want to list some signs which indicates that you or someone else is a "natural" Master.
The most of the points are quite obvious. So let's beginn:

It's not about sex! It is about hierarchy

When you are having a slave it is not about sex! It is about hierarchy.

Of course you use the slave for your sexual lust but it is not in the foreground. It is about hierarchy, domination. It is about train him to be a better slave for your needs, to see him serve you, to see him working for you. It is about trust, security, responsibility and perhaps affection/love! You want and take the responsibility for the slave. It makes you happy to have these responsibilities and you are proud of it.

Because it is about hierarchy and not about sex you do not need to be horny to dominate a slave. If you want to become a drink, your feet licked or other staff you order the slave to do so. A natural Master sees the slaves always as a slave.

When my Master is on business trips

Once in a while my Master has to go on business trips. Being physically separated from my Master is
always hard for me as a slave. Normally as a slave I would love to accompany my Master on his business trips and serve him there, but for different reasons that is only possible in a few cases.
So when my Master leaves for business trips he informs me about his trips, so I can prepare everything for him. I pack his luggage according to the length of the stay, the reason for the business trip (appropriate clothing) and the weather that is forecasted on the location.

This is just the basic packing. Additionally he tells me when there are special things he would need on his trips. For example, presents for a business partner etc. and I purchase them. Sometimes I also have to pack toys, when he intends to meet a sub on a trip.

BDSM-(Lifestyle) Outing - Comment Response

I received a comment in my Post "Disadvantage of the BDSM Lifestyle" which was such a great comment that I decide to respond with an own blogentry.

This time I want to share my thoughts about "BDSM Outing". Most have heard about outing in case of homosexuality. In my point of view there is also an BDSM outing which can be much harder combined with homosexuality. Furthermore it can be even harder when you are living the BDSM lifestyle but first I want to start where this blogentry started: By the comment of Fox Meeker.

For those of you which did not read the comment - here it is:

The session Master

I have already described what I think is a real or a natural Master. As stated those men are quite rare.
More common is probably the session Master. And I want to talk from my point of view as a slave a little bit about those Masters.

What is a session Master?
A session Master is a 100% Master within a certain amount of time and period, or better said within a session. When he is in a session he is 100% top, dominant, sadistic etc. He likes to play with his slaves and uses them and does great things in a session. But before and after the session he is just a normal guy. He does not require, nor need or seek slave behavior from you. Most of my experiences I had was with session Masters, I think he is the most common type. Before a session you communicate a lot what can happen, what can be done etc. After the session you mostly talk about how the session was and reflect.

Disadvantages of the BDSM Lifestyle

It would be a lie to say that the BDSM lifestyle has no disadvantages! There are a few points which are in my point of view a disadvantage.

Serving my Master with another slave

As you already know I'm the only permanent slave of my Master. As you can imagine he receives quite a lot of applications from other slaves who want to serve him. But that my Master trains and meets other slaves is extremely rare.

The cause for that is obvious: Most of the so called slaves don't fit his high requirements for slaves. Being on all fours and getting fucked and spanked is not his idea of training a slave, but many of the applicants have this picture in mind.

It might surprise you, but I'm not jealous at all when my Master is meeting other slaves, in fact in my view we could meet other slaves more often. My Master is a great Master, the best I know. He deserves to be served by as many good slaves as possible. And of course I'm very proud to be the slave of such a great Master. So it makes me also happy when other slaves see my Master and they see that he has chosen me, and that I have the honor to be his permanent slave. A little selfish I have to admit, but that is the way I feel.