About Slave M. & BDSM as lifestyle

I ordered my slave to write an article about "What means BDSM as a lifestyle to me".
So here is his article:

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What means BDSM as a lifestyle to me.


I’m an adult living in a western democracy and I believe that all people are born equally and free. Netherless I’m also the slave of my master, my husband, because I choose voluntary to be so.

It is in my nature to serve, it is in my nature to be submissive and to live as a slave. But don’t think I wander through the world as a passive being and being submissive to everybody – I’m only the slave of my master.

It was always in me, it was always part of my existence. I wanted somebody I could serve, somebody who would take me as his slave and train me for his customs.

I stated that all people are born equally and free. And still I also believe that some people are tops and need submissives that serve them on a voluntary basis. The amount of people and the intensity of serving is different of course. For me it is not on a session basis, but for me it is lifestyle, it is my life, 24/7. I always wanted a Master I can serve, more than I wanted a partner or a lover. After a long search and many disappointing experiences I found a master who wanted the same thing. A total submissive that would become voluntary his slave. First I became his slave, later his lover and partner and some time later his husband.

For me being a slave does not mean I’m in chains 24/7 have no contact to the outer world and be broken. I choose to do this voluntary, I have a job, a social life. But it means to me to be total submissive to my master. If you would see me with my master you would be surprised about the way I talk to him, the way we treat each other. I’m always his slave, I don’t need to be kneeing shivering in the edge of a room only addressing my master with “Sir, Yes Sir.” This was maybe when I was a session slave and this is sufficient for many, but not for me. I need a partner that needs me to be his submissive.

He controls most aspects of my life, and I do all I can do, to make his life as master easier and to serve him. And of course we are also husbands, so if you would see us, I hope you think: Sweet couple! That all sounds very complex and for me and my master it took years to figure everything out for ourselves and even some more years to figure this out together. This blog can give you an insight in what we found out.

The Slave