Guest Post - Being a BDSM slave with Attention Deficit Disorder (ADHD)

I have discovered only recently I have Attention Deficit Disorder. That was a turning point to understand my nature as a slave, and maybe many other slaves out there. Furthermore, it was a turning point to understand some stupid decisions I have made in my life when I was not being guided. You may ask: But what does it really mean? How can you be a proper dedicated slave with an attention disorder?

Could our relationship exist without BDSM?

Recently I received the following question:

"I’m wondering if you or your Master wanted to stop the BDSM way of live, do you think your relationship could go on? "

That is a very good question, which is not easy to answer because it is a hypothetically question.

Guest Post - Slavery in a "polyamorous" lifestyle, thoughts of a slave.

Although I have already had a M/s relationship, I am now going thru another path for my life: a polyamorous BDSM slavery. This is something quite new for me, and I am still learning and being trained by my Master about this specific lifestyle. My Master is experienced, and very good at it. He already owns a slave pup named Glitch that is very dedicated and loyal to the family. My brother Glitch has much more experience than me in this kind of relationship. He is a real model for me and I am very lucky to have him as a pup brother, so I can learn faster and better how to please our family.

Answering 3 BDSM questions

This time I want to answer three questions that I received from a slave, Pup Argos, via Twitter. I made a deal with him to answer them via our blog when he in return will write a guest post in our blog! He agreed, so here are the questions with my Master thougts:

1. "Why is so difficult to find REAL Masters? Nowadays we almost only find FinDoms that don't live it for real."

Fucking a slave

After all I decided to write about the subject of fucking a slave. If you read some article on our blog you know that sex - in my point of view - has nothing or at least only very little to do with BDSM. As for me BDSM has to do with domination, submission and trust! So there are of course two main forms of fucking a slave. The oral and the anal fuck and I want to write in this article about my point of view about fucking a slave and what it means to me. To clearify fucking a slave does not mean that it has to end with an orgasm but you will read more in my article.

What it is like to love a slave

What is it like to dominate the slave you love? It is an intensive gesture of love, trust and devotion. For me personaly it makes it more intense when love (or for guestslaves: affection) is involved. This is another dimension of domination. A more intense form of BDSM. Do not get me wrong: I also really enjoy having an object (as slave)! Ordering a lickslave to my hotel room and get my feet licked for hours. But here is the difference: When dominating someone longer than one day or longer than 4-6 hours the slave will loose the characteristic of an "object" for me. You use an object but you will not take "special" care of the needs (eat, drink, piss). So the interaction with an "object" is very limited and therefore no or very less affection is needed. With the rising of interactions I want "feedback", I want a dynamic which requires at least affection. Or in other words: When I order an guestslave (as object) to serve me I will not build a bond or train him.

Fantasies I would love to perform

A Master friend recently asked me what fantasies I had which would want to perform.
That was an interesting question to me, which I could not answer easily, because I'm already the slave of my husband and in this way my biggest dream has become reality and on the other hand I'm here for making his fantasies reality.

But of course there are still some things in my mind.