Consent & BDSM

This time I decided to write about consent in BDSM and how this matches up. Because BDSM & consent could look like that it would be contrary but it is not! So first of all: Yes, there is a consent between a Master and his slave and the consent is needed! It is not like that someone is sitting at home and from nowhere a Master/Mistress is appearing and is "enslaving" a guy (or woman) - who perhaps never heard about BDSM.

It starts with someone feeling and persuing a desire - the desire to dominate or serve. Perhaps this person will find the courage to satisfy his desire and explores it. Therefore he tries to connect on social media like recon, BDSM-Bars and so on. So the first time you find a glimps of consent in BDSM is in the action you take to find your inner needs and by wanting them satisfied! A Master wants to dominate and a slave wants to serve and with the first "session" you start to build up the trust and security which could perhaps lead to the desire of deepen BDSM and perhaps the desire to live the BDSM lifestyle.

A thank you to the Doms on twitter!

Some weeks ago I thanked the slaves and subs who are on twitter, who share their story and who are in contact with me. I explained why it is important for me to be in contact with other slaves. 

But of course I am also very thankful to the Doms on twitter and so I want to dedicate this post to you Sirs!

As a natural submissive I was always shy to approach Doms, because I think they are so much above me in the natural hierarchy that I should not disturb them by contacting them. This has not changed since I am owned. It is still very rare that I contact Doms on twitter. On the one hand of course because I am an owned slave, but I still think of myself as a natural submissive who should not disturb natural Alphas. I follow a lot of Doms on twitter and I am thankful for the stories, picture and thoughts they share!

Anal penetration on slaves

I use my slave for various chores and tasks. Living the BDSM lifestyle is more then fucking a slave. It is for some - or perhaps only for a few - of us a attitude to life. The aesthetic of the slavebody while taking the ordered/trained pose. Getting served a drink or receiving the full trust of the slave when playing with his slavebody for my pleasure. The slavebody - this brings me to my topic of today: Anal penetration on slaves.

My view on slaves

I decided to write a blogpost about my point of view on how I see slaves. So this blogpost will be my very personal opinion about slaves. As you probably and already know I refer to myself as a natural Master. So I have a clear view on slaves. Once a slave served me and I see that he has a certain amount of "natural submissiveness" in him he will always be branded as slave in my eyes. This means in my view he loses permanently his "status" as an "equal" human being! This does NOT mean I have no respect for him! NO, absolutely not!!
It only means that once I "branded" a person as a slave in my mind I see him hierarchically below me! Nothing more. Perhaps the best way to describe this is to refer to the working environment. There is also a hierachy installed and the worker (hopefully) earns the same respect as the leader(s).

A thank you to the slaves on twitter!

Since my Master and I joined twitter my world somehow changed for me. I have found people to exchange my thoughts, express my ideas and I could get in contact with other Doms and submissives and also made some friends here! 
This is the reason why I want to dedicate this blogpost as a thank you to my fellow slaves, subs and pups out there who are in contact with me and have reached out to me. 

Why I would not rent out my slave, although I find the idea hot!

I have to admit that I find the idea of lending a slave for money delightful. But let us start from the beginning. Owning a well trained slave, using him and train him further is a privilege which I extremly enjoy. When you train your slave to a specific level you are proud of him and you want to show him to other (natural) Masters. There are BDSM parties to do so or you invite other Master(friends) over. I really enjoy that.

The idea of lending my slave to another Master for money is a cool mindset. Receiving money for your "work" you have done and showing him off are some nice thoughts! But it will stay a mindset! "Why?" are you asking?

Where I want to improve my slave skills

A user asked recently if I would think I would need to improve my slave skills or if I was at my best.

This is a very good question indeed! First of all I think as a slave you need constant training not only to get better but to keep your level of skills. That is why my Master trains me on different aspects on a regular basis.

Yes I definitely think I can and I should improve my skills. As slave I always try to become better to be able to serve my Master in a better way. This can be when I try out a new recipe and improve my cooking skills, when I do sports to improve my fitness etc. 

Of course my Master tells me from time to time fields where he wants me to improve my skills. Obviously he has trained me over years how to suck his dick and lick his balls exactly the way he enjoys it most, how he likes to get his drinks served, how I should kneel, bow down etc.