Thursday, January 26, 2023

BDSM and food

BDSM and food? You might be suprised how those two topics can be connected. But food is a huge part of all our life and as in our life BDSM is a huge part I decided on reflecting on different aspects of it.

Regulations and restrictions:

In a D/s relationship food can be used as a restricted subject for the slave. For example: Master has declared sweets, alcohol and coffee as luxuries for me. I have to work for them and earn the right to enjoy them. So the next time you just enjoy a nice cup of coffee think of me of how I have to work for mine. You might do the same with your slave and restrict certain types of food where you know that they are not healthy for him or where you want that he works for them. Of course this should always stay in a healthy way and be never comined with denying some food that your slave needs!

Cooking in a D/s relationship:

Who goes shopping, who cooks and how decides what is going to be cooked and when? Those things are part of many discussions in vanilla relationships but might be pretty setteled in a D/s relationship. For example: I always do the shopping and cooking, Master decides when we eat and I give Him options on what to eat. When preparing a meal I had to learn the likes and dislikes of the Master. This means that some kind of food that I like very much but He dislikes is only available when Master is away. Furthermore I have to make sure that the food can be prepared in a way that I can also eat it from my dog bowl without using cutlery. If that is to complicated for various reasons I prepare two dishes, one for me and one for my Master.

What type of food and drinks you prepare:

Depending on what kind of session or evenings you have planed you might prepare the food and drinks accordingly. So that they don't affect your digestive system to much, or that they are too spicy when you know you will be plugged for some time. Even the Master can decide on making piss games more or less pleasent for you depending on what He drinks.

Healthy food:

Thinking about healty food is not only important in a D/s relationship but in every relationship. But I see it as my duty that I as slave make sure that my body stays healthy for my Master by eating healthy food. The same goes for my Master. I try to prepare food where I know it does my Master good.

Can you think of other connections of BDSM and food?

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2 comments:

Missccslave said...

Are there any type of slave gruel that you make or eat? If so, do you have the recipe you can share?

fag slave said...

This slave has been in a M/s relationship where when Master and slave go out to eat, Master chooses what the slave will eat and drink. slave has no say in what is ordered for it. Master controls the whole meal and conversation if any.