As you perhaps know I started on Twitter the hashtag #FindOutFridayBDSM. There I receive sometimes questions where I need more than 280 characters to answer properly. So I decided to use the blog to deepen some of those more complex questions. So here are the first "Find out Friday Questions" for the blog.
This is the blog of a gay-couple who lives in an BDSM-Relationship and share their experience, minds and thoughts about the lifestyle in living BDSM.
Thursday, May 14, 2020
Thursday, May 7, 2020
Being ordered to serve another Master
Obviously this evening happened some time ago. But I still have it in vivid memory, so I decided to describe the first time my Master ordered me to go to another place to serve a Master without him. It is very rare my Master lets other Masters play with me or orders me to serve them. And even in those rare cases it only happens when my Master is present and in full control over the situation. So sending me to another Master and allow this Master to use me is probably the biggest level of trust my Master can give to another Master.
Thursday, April 30, 2020
Financial domination
The more I am exploring twitter (of course with BDSM context) the more findoms I find. So I decided to write about financial domination. Everything I write here is my opinion and keep in mind I focus on the aspect of living the BDSM lifestyle with a slave. First of all financial domination can be ordering your slave to tribute to you or to another Master. But the „honest“ tribute comes when a slave himself wants to tribute to a Master without receiving the order for it. About the subject of tributing you can read here and here from my slave. On this post I want to focus on financial domination. Full financial domination means you can or you do control the financial situation of your slave but of course there are also attenuated forms of financial domination.
Thursday, April 23, 2020
Guest Post - Being a BDSM slave with Attention Deficit Disorder (ADHD)
I have discovered only recently I have Attention Deficit Disorder. That was a turning point to understand my nature as a slave, and maybe many other slaves out there. Furthermore, it was a turning point to understand some stupid decisions I have made in my life when I was not being guided. You may ask: But what does it really mean? How can you be a proper dedicated slave with an attention disorder?
Thursday, April 16, 2020
Could our relationship exist without BDSM?
Recently I received the following question:
"I’m wondering if you or your Master wanted to stop the BDSM way of live, do you think your relationship could go on? "That is a very good question, which is not easy to answer because it is a hypothetically question.
Thursday, April 9, 2020
Guest Post - Slavery in a "polyamorous" lifestyle, thoughts of a slave.
Although I have already had a M/s relationship, I am now going thru another path for my life: a polyamorous BDSM slavery. This is something quite new for me, and I am still learning and being trained by my Master about this specific lifestyle. My Master is experienced, and very good at it. He already owns a slave pup named Glitch that is very dedicated and loyal to the family. My brother Glitch has much more experience than me in this kind of relationship. He is a real model for me and I am very lucky to have him as a pup brother, so I can learn faster and better how to please our family.
Wednesday, April 1, 2020
Answering 3 BDSM questions
This time I want to answer three questions that I received from a slave, Pup Argos, via Twitter. I made a deal with him to answer them via our blog when he in return will write a guest post in our blog! He agreed, so here are the questions with my Master thougts:
1. "Why is so difficult to find REAL Masters? Nowadays we almost only find FinDoms that don't live it for real."
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