Happy Locktober!

As you know, I don't receive full orgasms any more and I am locked most of the time. So one could ask, what Locktober means to me? Well physically not that much changes. I am locked and I don't get to cum. Mentally I don't have the thought that I have to make it to the end of October to receive an orgasm, because I won't get any.

But still Locktober is very important to me. It is so great to hear all the different thoughts of Doms and subs on chastity, highlighting all the different aspects of it. Seeing each and every day on social media a ton of locked dicks of subs. Surprisingly more and more Doms are locking themselves up too! Being chaste seems to bring joy for many. It is great hearing how people are happy, when they got past another day, hearing the encouraging words of others when someone struggels. 

Tips about finding your Master/slave

I often get the question "What can I do to find a Master/slave?". I think it is time that I write my thoughts down. One thing in particular has to be clear: It needs your effort and of course luck.

Being in the dark about meetings

As you might have guessed: Master loves being in control and showing me that He is in control. One way He loves to show me that is by leaving me in darkness about meetings. Meetings with BDSM context to be precise. We share an online calender and I am ordered to keep it up to date always. So whenever I have to work late, there is an event or there is a vanilla meeting I have to write in the calender. So that Master knows which days and weekends are free for Him to plan. As soon as He has planned a BDSM meeting Sir marks the day in our shared calender as booked. So I know that I can't plan other events there. 

Serving Master D. for a Weekend (guest post)

It was a great and intense weekend of submitting and serving. I was introduced to the bdsm-lifestyle.

After a long ride I finally arrived at Master D.`s place. I had to get undressed, place ankle and wrist restraints with padlocks and was then welcomed by Master D. with a temporary slave chain collar. He also took my phone and valuables as I was not allowed to have them as long as He would allow it. I was surprisingly calm with that as I thought about that before how I would feel. But it showed my place even more and is an important aspect of power exchange in my opinion.

Routines in the BDSM Lifestyle

Rules, structure and routines are essential when it comes to handling slaves. To condition your slave you need time, effort and passion. On the other hand you need to be strict but also understanding. 

being a human urinal for guests

Recently Master had a guest Master invited. As usually I only knew someone was coming. But I never know if it would be a Dom or a sub and if I knew this person or not. It was one of the few true Doms that are living roughly close to use. We only had met this Sir recently and I was genuinly happy to see him again but thought a the same time: "Fuck, it is the sadist!" 

Why I switched to Telegram Channel

Next week we will post again regulary blogposts. I decided to release this blogpost one week before we dive into BDSM topics again. I decided to write the article about the reason I switched my main channel from Twitter to Telegram. One of the reason is how Twitter is acting lately. Changing functions without informing the users. Starting to restrict the views per days and than backing off without notification and so on. Furthermore it is good to have a backup channel in case they change the terms of use.
Of course I will stay on twitter as long as possible and tweet there but I will use my Telegram Channel as main channel now. Therefore I will post sometimes exclusive content there.