Mistakes and Punishment: Lessons from Serving as a Guest Slave

I had the honor and pleasure of serving Master D as a guest slave. The experience was both enlightening and deeply inspiring. As a dedicated kinkster, I have always sought to understand the intricate dynamics of a Master-slave relationship. Despite my efforts, however, I discovered that there is always room for growth and improvement. Here are some key takeaways from my experience.

The bitter sweet joy and pain of missing Master

"What?" - you might think. "How can it be a "bitter sweet joy" if you miss your Master? Well - let me explain. When Master and I are apart I of course miss Master a lot. It is like a part of me is missing and there are so many moments I would love to share with Sir, feel Him and be of service to Him. But of course there can be quite a joy of still serving Him, even if Sir is not around. Being locked for Him, performing chorse for Him, eating from the floor if possible etc. Such things deepen the relation, even if Sir is not around. At the same time I look very much forward to the moment when Sir comes back, I think about how Sir might use slave, what we might do etc. and how I could greet Sir perfectly.

Being happy when Sir receives appropiate service from others

I have already written about the topic of jealousy in the a D/s relationship and that I actually think it is hot when Master uses other slaves. But today I want to focus on a certain aspect of that: Master receiving good service.

Punishment - in a fair D/s lifestyle

Rules, orders and structures are an essential part in a D/s dynamic and it is normal that mistake are part of our human being. I own my slave for over a decade now and it is absolut normal that sometimes a mistake happen despite how well a slave is trained and what quality the slave reached.

creative ways of serving

There are so many ways of serving. There are so many ways of a submissive being useful for a Dom. The two main ways of service seem to be sexual service and financial services, when you look online. So that is why I decided to focus on the other ways of being useful, especially when they are a little bit more creative:

Finally - the joy of serving outdoor again!

I actually love autumn and winter time. You spend much more time indoors which gives a lot more opportunities of serving and lot more possibilities of using candles! But now as spring and summer are here and approaching the way of serving changes and the few possibilities of serving outdoor are opening up again. I really love to serve outdoor. It is so rare of course. Cause you need to find the right place and time, cause we do not want to scare of vanillas. I think this makes it special to me. 

Getting used to be bred and milked

Master is in charge of my sexuality for more than a decade. Only Sir decides when I get fucked and by whom. Same goes for the stimulation I receive and the stimulation I give others. It is totally under Sirs control and functions on command. I noticed over the years that I am getting trained more and more like an animal and start to function as one.