The session Master

I have already described what I think is a real or a natural Master. As stated those men are quite rare.
More common is probably the session Master. And I want to talk from my point of view as a slave a little bit about those Masters.

What is a session Master?
A session Master is a 100% Master within a certain amount of time and period, or better said within a session. When he is in a session he is 100% top, dominant, sadistic etc. He likes to play with his slaves and uses them and does great things in a session. But before and after the session he is just a normal guy. He does not require, nor need or seek slave behavior from you. Most of my experiences I had was with session Masters, I think he is the most common type. Before a session you communicate a lot what can happen, what can be done etc. After the session you mostly talk about how the session was and reflect.

Disadvantages of the BDSM Lifestyle

It would be a lie to say that the BDSM lifestyle has no disadvantages! There are a few points which are in my point of view a disadvantage.

Serving my Master with another slave

As you already know I'm the only permanent slave of my Master. As you can imagine he receives quite a lot of applications from other slaves who want to serve him. But that my Master trains and meets other slaves is extremely rare.

The cause for that is obvious: Most of the so called slaves don't fit his high requirements for slaves. Being on all fours and getting fucked and spanked is not his idea of training a slave, but many of the applicants have this picture in mind.

It might surprise you, but I'm not jealous at all when my Master is meeting other slaves, in fact in my view we could meet other slaves more often. My Master is a great Master, the best I know. He deserves to be served by as many good slaves as possible. And of course I'm very proud to be the slave of such a great Master. So it makes me also happy when other slaves see my Master and they see that he has chosen me, and that I have the honor to be his permanent slave. A little selfish I have to admit, but that is the way I feel.

Visiting one of my non permanent slaves

I decided to meet another slave which I already know for some years.

I ordered the other slave (I will call him here omega-slave) to be chaste 10 days before our meeting and to buy a good wine. As always, he had to do some preparations before our meeting. The slave has to tape the key to his apartment underneath the postbox, get cleaned and shaved. Furthermore, he has to wear a chastity device. After receiving the information that I will soon be at his apartment he had to get prepared: He had to kneel naked, with cuffs, collar and mask in his bedroom and close the door of the bedroom.

Of course I do never inform him if my slave is with me or not. 

After I arrived in the apartment with my slave, I went to the living room and ordered my slave - I call him alpha-slave when meeting other slaves - to get ready. Afterwards I ordered him to pick up, blindfold and bring me the omega slave into the living room. where I sat on the couch. 

The benefits of owning a natural slave (Part1)

I decided to write here about the benefits of owning a natural slave by living the BDSM lifestyle.
I want to focus in this post on details and views of owning a natural slave with some examples about the benefits.  But I will skip the obvious benefits of owning a slave here.

In my job I have to do a lot of organizational work. But outside my work I hand it over to my slave to have more time for relaxing. Here are some duties which my slave has to perform which are a huge benefit for me.

Schedule coordination

First of all my slave has to enter all appointments in his digital calendar. His and my calendar are both synchronized together. So he can see my existing (business and private) appointments. This is necessary so he can coordinate new (private) appointments or shift appointments which have to be changed.

Owning the ass of my slave

You probably read the post of my slave about me owning his ass. It is time to add here my point of view.

Before I owned slave M. I have met a lot of slaves and invited them to my home to dominate them. To play with the asses of slaves can be a part of the session but is not essential. To show dominance I do not need to play with their asses.
But it can be an important part of how to show slaves who is in charge, as example by tying them up and play with their asses. But the important part to me is that they are tied up: Defenseless and at my mercy. Otherwise it has nothing to do with domination. Then playing with the most intimate part of their body, the anus, indicates for me the power gap between a Master and a slave. Furthermore it shows that the slave has no right over his body. It is a symbol of owning the slaves body. In sessions you own the body temporarily (in the predefined limits) and in a BDSM lifestyle permanent. For most of the slaves playing gentle with their asses gives them a sexual stimulation but if you begin to worker harder on them it turns into torture. To be in charge of that: giving the slave excitement or to torture them while they are tied up and have to endure the procedure is a great way of showing power!

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