In this post I will address the topic of tributing to another Master in general and from my point of view. I'll not write about what it is like to tribute to my Master, because he owns me and so this should be a topic of its own.
First of all I was really surprised to see how many CashMasters, findoms etc. are out there on twitter and other platforms and seeking the money off submissive. So I have put many thoughts into that topic. Please be aware that all my thoughts are just my personal point of view. I know that some people see it differently. I want to address the Pros and the Cons of findoms, and then describe the type of Master I'm eager to tribute.
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Showing posts with label Definitions Terms Theorie. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Definitions Terms Theorie. Show all posts
Thursday, January 2, 2020
Saturday, December 14, 2019
Male hierarchy from a slave perspective
You have chosen the topic! Thank you very much for participating in my Masters poll about the next topic I have to write about.You have chosen that I should write about male hierarchy from a slaves perspective. So my Master ordered me do so.
Just to be clear: I treat everybody nice and with respect as long as they respect me. But from my point of view there is a natural hierarchy between different men. As a Master friend once stated: "Some are meant to rule and some are meant to serve." I would divide males roughly in three categories:
Just to be clear: I treat everybody nice and with respect as long as they respect me. But from my point of view there is a natural hierarchy between different men. As a Master friend once stated: "Some are meant to rule and some are meant to serve." I would divide males roughly in three categories:
Wednesday, November 13, 2019
Standard-, High- and Specific-Protocols
To live the BDSM lifestyle means to me to have strict rules for my slave and to be consequent. But there are a lot of factors which has an influence to our life and therefore on our lifestyle. That can be the job, friends, families and of course the human mind itself. So they are different kind of protocols which my slave has to follow. The protocols are build onto each other. With these different protocols it is possible to live our BDSM lifestyle as we do without being inconsequent.Thursday, May 30, 2019
What constitutes a good Master
There are a lot of Masters in the "BDSM" world. Natural and session Masters, tall and short ones. Some more strict than others. Some with more experience than others. Some with a rubber fetish other with a sneaker fetish. They are a lot of different Masters types. But what constitutes a good Master?
Of course you have to look on different situations. But there are some points which are omnipresent.
Of course you have to look on different situations. But there are some points which are omnipresent.
Thursday, April 25, 2019
Should your slave be allowed to work?
Many people who connect with us ask us if I'm allowed to work. In many SM-stories the slave stays 24/7 at home. Sometimes he isn't even allowed to leave the house. His Master leaves in the morning, the slave works all day at home for the Master and knees at the entrance till his Owner returns. I don't think that works in reality for long.
In my opinion slaves should not only be allowed to work, but they should be encouraged to have a job. Some Masters might disagree, but hear me out, I think there a several reasons why a slave should be allowed to work.
Thursday, January 24, 2019
The session Master
I have already described what I think is a real or a natural Master. As stated those men are quite rare.
More common is probably the session Master. And I want to talk from my point of view as a slave a little bit about those Masters.
What is a session Master?
A session Master is a 100% Master within a certain amount of time and period, or better said within a session. When he is in a session he is 100% top, dominant, sadistic etc. He likes to play with his slaves and uses them and does great things in a session. But before and after the session he is just a normal guy. He does not require, nor need or seek slave behavior from you. Most of my experiences I had was with session Masters, I think he is the most common type. Before a session you communicate a lot what can happen, what can be done etc. After the session you mostly talk about how the session was and reflect.
More common is probably the session Master. And I want to talk from my point of view as a slave a little bit about those Masters.
What is a session Master?A session Master is a 100% Master within a certain amount of time and period, or better said within a session. When he is in a session he is 100% top, dominant, sadistic etc. He likes to play with his slaves and uses them and does great things in a session. But before and after the session he is just a normal guy. He does not require, nor need or seek slave behavior from you. Most of my experiences I had was with session Masters, I think he is the most common type. Before a session you communicate a lot what can happen, what can be done etc. After the session you mostly talk about how the session was and reflect.
Wednesday, November 21, 2018
The Different Slave-Subtypes: The Sex Slave (8/8)
As the name mention: The sex slaves wants to be used for sexual pleasure. So he wants to be fucked or to suck your dick! Mostly these slaves also want to receive their orgasm. The pure sex slave has not much to do with BDSM. He is only submissive for sex.
Tuesday, November 20, 2018
The Different Slave-Subtypes: The Furniture Slave (7/8)
The next step of reduction, after the dog/pony slave, is the furniture slave. He wants to be reduced to a thing. To a table, chair, footstool, ashtray, urinal....
I like this kind of reduction for a slave. I love to use my slave as a table and put my glass of whine on him. When I am using someone or my slave as furniture slave I want him to be absolutely quiet and concentrate on that one thing he has to do. His only job is to be used as that "thing".
I like this kind of reduction for a slave. I love to use my slave as a table and put my glass of whine on him. When I am using someone or my slave as furniture slave I want him to be absolutely quiet and concentrate on that one thing he has to do. His only job is to be used as that "thing".
Monday, November 19, 2018
The Different Slave-Subtypes: The Pony Slave (6/8)
The pony slave is next to the dog slave another form to reduce a slave and to show him his position.
The different between the pony slave and the dog slave is, that the pony slave wants to work. The dog slave is more "fun". The pony slave is a "working animal" while the dog slave is a "domestic animal".
To sit on a ponyslave having the rein in the your hands and giving him instruction over the crop and the rein is a unique experience! Like my slave wrote in this post: "The Master and his ponyslave become one unity". To feel your slave under you and feel him working for you, is a really cool experience! To see that his exhausted level increases and to push him a little further to his physical limit is a great way to show your dominance and your position as his Master! It is a great way for a slave to serve a master.
Also you could tie your ponyslave to a cart. It would be a great way to be transported from A to B. But therefore you need enough space or perhaps better a own range...
As you see a Ponyslave is a slave which is reduced to be a "working animal".
To see the slave lieing on the ground exhausted after his work, gasping for air and being totaly sweaty is a great view.
Unfurtunaly I started very late to use/train ponyslaves. My slave showed me that "genre" and I felt in love with it. One of the aspect why I also fell in love with it is, that the Master also have to train how to ride the ponyslave. You can not sit on a ponyslave and think you can instantly give correct signals or sitting fix in the saddle. To be a unity means that both, Master and the ponyslave, needs training.
If you have any question or comments about the ponyslave let me know in the comment below.
Here you find the overview of all sub-types of slaves.
The different between the pony slave and the dog slave is, that the pony slave wants to work. The dog slave is more "fun". The pony slave is a "working animal" while the dog slave is a "domestic animal".
To sit on a ponyslave having the rein in the your hands and giving him instruction over the crop and the rein is a unique experience! Like my slave wrote in this post: "The Master and his ponyslave become one unity". To feel your slave under you and feel him working for you, is a really cool experience! To see that his exhausted level increases and to push him a little further to his physical limit is a great way to show your dominance and your position as his Master! It is a great way for a slave to serve a master.
Also you could tie your ponyslave to a cart. It would be a great way to be transported from A to B. But therefore you need enough space or perhaps better a own range...
As you see a Ponyslave is a slave which is reduced to be a "working animal".
To see the slave lieing on the ground exhausted after his work, gasping for air and being totaly sweaty is a great view.
Unfurtunaly I started very late to use/train ponyslaves. My slave showed me that "genre" and I felt in love with it. One of the aspect why I also fell in love with it is, that the Master also have to train how to ride the ponyslave. You can not sit on a ponyslave and think you can instantly give correct signals or sitting fix in the saddle. To be a unity means that both, Master and the ponyslave, needs training.
If you have any question or comments about the ponyslave let me know in the comment below.
Here you find the overview of all sub-types of slaves.
Sunday, November 18, 2018
The Different Slave-Subtypes: The Dog Slave (5/8)
The dog slave wants to be reduced to an animal. But why a dog?
Dogs are known as loyal, friendly, honest, playful and you can train them. Most of these aspect are basic BDSM aspects which are important in the BDSM lifestyle. I described the correlation/similarity between owner and their animals with the BDSM Lifestyle in this post.
Dogs are known as loyal, friendly, honest, playful and you can train them. Most of these aspect are basic BDSM aspects which are important in the BDSM lifestyle. I described the correlation/similarity between owner and their animals with the BDSM Lifestyle in this post.
Saturday, November 17, 2018
The Different Slave-Subtypes: The Servant Slave (4/8)
These Slave want to serve and I am not speaking about sex. They wants to be a servants! Clean the house, doing laundry, cook and bring drink to their Master. Some call these slaves also house slaves. Servant Slaves normally are very submissive slaves! It makes the slave happy to make the life of his Master easier. Good servant slaves also want to serve in a "stylisch" way (like Buttler). As example my slave brings me my drink by holding his left arm behind his back, while walking with his straight back towards me and before handing me my drink over he goes on his knees and waits until I take the drink. This looks extremely esthetic!
The Different Slave-Subtypes: The Masochistic Slave (3/8)
The masochistic slave is normally not really submissive. In your common understanding the masochistic slave like to receive pain or to be tortured. He enjoys it and he is searching the torture. This is for me a direct masochist, also known as pain slave. To "play" with such a slave can be fun but this is normally a session slave. Of course a direct maso slave or better called pain slave, can be also be a little bit submissive but I never had a pain slave who was that submissive to be a real natural slave. In his subconscious he wants to be punished.
The Different Slave-Subtypes: The Submissive Slave (2/8)
Every slave has a submissive part in him! Otherwise he would not search for someone who dominates him. It is more the question how submissive a slave is. The more submissive a slave is the more rule and order-consisten he is. The submissive slave want to fulfill his given task properly and in a good quality. It makes him happy to make his Master happy. A natural slave is highly submissive! This correlates and is necessary, otherwise he would be a session slave. This trait of being submissive is the key element for any slave who wants to live the BDSM lifestyle. To serve a real master has to give you (the slave) joy and it should make you happy! This is only possible if you are highly (and naturally) submissive.
Thursday, November 15, 2018
The Different Slave-Subtypes: The Overview (1/8)
As you perhaps read in my previous Posts, there are 2 (and a half) main slave Types:
Here I want to write about the two slave characteristics and the different sub-types. In this Overview I will list them all and link them to the Post where you can read more about them in detail.
The Masochistic Slave (read more)
For me there are two kind of Masochist. The direct and the indirect masochist. In your common understanding the masochistic slave, also known as pain slave, likes to receive pain or to be tortured. He enjoys it. This is for me the direct masochist. But I think there are also a indirect masochist. ...(read more)
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Furthermore you can classify slave into the follow "sub-types":
The Servant Slave (read more)
These Slave want to serve and I am not speaking about sex. He wants to be a servant! Clean the house, doing laundry, to cook and bring drink to his Master. Some call this slaves also houseslaves. They also enjoy that to do it in a stylisch way! Servant Slaves normally are very submissive slaves ...(read more)
The Dog Slave (read more)
These slaves want to be reduced to an animal! But not like a livestock more in a playful way! The BDSM Lifestyle is like having a "dog". You want to train him, to have fun with him but not to break him. Thats the way of a dog slave! It is a "friendly" way of practicing BDSM. ...(read more)
The Pony Slave (read more)
These slaves want to be reduced to an animal! To an livestock. They want to feel they Master. To strain for there Master. If you never sat on a pony slave: after some minutes you will see how them sweat! ...(read more)
The Furniture/Object Slave (read more)
These slaves wants to be reduced to a "minimum"... to a thing! As example you tie up the slave to a table or a chair and use him like that. You put things on it or sit on it. This can last for hours. These slaves want to be something useful for there Master without disturbing them. Some slaves want to be used urinal or ashtray. ...(read more)
The Sex Slave (read more)
These slave are very in common. They want to serve their Master in a sexual way. So they want to be fucked or suck dicks. Slaves who categorize them as "sluts" are also sex slaves. ...(read more)
Most of the slaves are a mix of the subtypes above and of course they can be trained in these categories to improve! Some sub-types as example the submissive are more suitable for a BDSM Lifestyle than other.
If you have any question or comments about this overview or if I missed one sub-type let me know in the comment below.
Here I want to write about the two slave characteristics and the different sub-types. In this Overview I will list them all and link them to the Post where you can read more about them in detail.
There are two important characteristics in which you can classify any slave! This is important to know when you are dominating/dealing with slaves.
There is the submissiv slave and the masochistic slave.
The Submissive Slave (read more)
Every slave has a submissive part in him! Otherwise he would not search for someone who dominates him. It is more the question how submissive a slave is. The more submissive a slave is the more rule- and order-consisten he is. The submissive slave want to fulfill his given task properly and in a good quality. It makes him happy to make his Master happy. ...(read more)
The Masochistic Slave (read more)
For me there are two kind of Masochist. The direct and the indirect masochist. In your common understanding the masochistic slave, also known as pain slave, likes to receive pain or to be tortured. He enjoys it. This is for me the direct masochist. But I think there are also a indirect masochist. ...(read more)
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Furthermore you can classify slave into the follow "sub-types":
The Servant Slave (read more)
These Slave want to serve and I am not speaking about sex. He wants to be a servant! Clean the house, doing laundry, to cook and bring drink to his Master. Some call this slaves also houseslaves. They also enjoy that to do it in a stylisch way! Servant Slaves normally are very submissive slaves ...(read more)
These slaves want to be reduced to an animal! But not like a livestock more in a playful way! The BDSM Lifestyle is like having a "dog". You want to train him, to have fun with him but not to break him. Thats the way of a dog slave! It is a "friendly" way of practicing BDSM. ...(read more)
The Pony Slave (read more)
These slaves want to be reduced to an animal! To an livestock. They want to feel they Master. To strain for there Master. If you never sat on a pony slave: after some minutes you will see how them sweat! ...(read more)
The Furniture/Object Slave (read more)
These slaves wants to be reduced to a "minimum"... to a thing! As example you tie up the slave to a table or a chair and use him like that. You put things on it or sit on it. This can last for hours. These slaves want to be something useful for there Master without disturbing them. Some slaves want to be used urinal or ashtray. ...(read more)
The Sex Slave (read more)
These slave are very in common. They want to serve their Master in a sexual way. So they want to be fucked or suck dicks. Slaves who categorize them as "sluts" are also sex slaves. ...(read more)
Most of the slaves are a mix of the subtypes above and of course they can be trained in these categories to improve! Some sub-types as example the submissive are more suitable for a BDSM Lifestyle than other.
If you have any question or comments about this overview or if I missed one sub-type let me know in the comment below.
Monday, November 12, 2018
The natural Master
In many of my posts I have used the term "true" or "natural" Master. So I thought I should spent some time in explaining what this term means for me.
In my opinion there are only quite a few natural Masters. My Master is of course one of them, otherwise I would not have become his natural slave. In this post I'm not going to write about my Master, this will be a post on its own, but I will talk a little bit about natural Masters.
What is a natural Master?
Natural Masters are in principle ordinary males. Ordinary because they can have any age, race, job etc. There is not a special look or a special type of a natural Master. But they are in particular extraordinary because they are superior males. Not superior to all males, but to the ones who consider themselves as slaves and that want to submit. Those natural Masters feel naturally that there are others which should serve them.
In my opinion there are only quite a few natural Masters. My Master is of course one of them, otherwise I would not have become his natural slave. In this post I'm not going to write about my Master, this will be a post on its own, but I will talk a little bit about natural Masters.What is a natural Master?
Natural Masters are in principle ordinary males. Ordinary because they can have any age, race, job etc. There is not a special look or a special type of a natural Master. But they are in particular extraordinary because they are superior males. Not superior to all males, but to the ones who consider themselves as slaves and that want to submit. Those natural Masters feel naturally that there are others which should serve them.
Friday, September 28, 2018
Session vs. 24/7
When I tell someone in the BDSM scene that I live in a BDSM lifestyle and I have a natural slave (24/7) they come with ideas that never fits reality! Yes my slave has a lot of rules which he has to observe. But no, he is not locked up in a cage the whole day where he is only allowed to come out when I need his services! He is not living in fear. There are huge differences between having a session and living BDSM 24/7.
Mostly you order your session slave to come on a specific date. With the arriving of the slave the session starts and ends with sending him home. Perhaps your boundary to the slave is only based on BDSM because you do not want an emotional connection with him. So no smalltalk, only using the slave, having fun, and sending him home. Perhaps you first dominate him and afterwards you treat him equally. So the hierarchy disappears. There are various way to plan and do a session but one thing is sure: The hierarchy ends with sending the slave home or you end the session and treats him equally. The rules and structure of the "slavery" is only present when the session is ongoing.
Mostly you order your session slave to come on a specific date. With the arriving of the slave the session starts and ends with sending him home. Perhaps your boundary to the slave is only based on BDSM because you do not want an emotional connection with him. So no smalltalk, only using the slave, having fun, and sending him home. Perhaps you first dominate him and afterwards you treat him equally. So the hierarchy disappears. There are various way to plan and do a session but one thing is sure: The hierarchy ends with sending the slave home or you end the session and treats him equally. The rules and structure of the "slavery" is only present when the session is ongoing.
Friday, September 21, 2018
The 2 Slave-Types: My Conclusion (4/4)
Every slave is different but normally you can categorize them in one of the two (and a half) main types. Some Masters like to have session slaves, while other wants natural slaves and other like both.
Of course I am not unbiased. I am a natural Master and own my natural (non masochistic) slave! It is my way of lifestyle and I love it! I love to dominate my slave in daily live and in many areas. Because of that it is obvious that I prefer naturals slaves but from time to time I also prefer pseudo sessions slaves. More then session slaves. Because there are more authentic.
Tuesday, September 18, 2018
The 2 Slave-Types: The Pseudo Session Slave (3/4)
- It is easier for him to accept his being as a slave when it is temporary but inside he is an natural slave. With the right Master he could find confidence and life his natural desires.
- He has to have a strict cut between "private life" and his being as a slave. He is not able to mix it.
- He did not found the matching Master yet.
- To be a slave can be interpreted as weakness or "less worth" in our society or by other BDSM people (more about this topic in another post).
Sunday, September 16, 2018
The 2 Slave-Types: The Session Slave (2/4)
A session slave is a slave which serve for several hours or days. So this type of slave is not a "natural" one. He wants to serve only in a defined time slot. Outside this time slot he can be submissive but only when he wants to. Exaggerated: He "plays" the role of an slave. The desire to be a slave is temporary. The desire to serve is by the most session slaves linked to the desire to receive an orgasm. Mostly the desire to be a slave lasts until they orgasm. So either the hierarchy only exists within the defined time-slot or until they orgasm.More about the the difference between a session itself and a 24/7 lifestyle will be discussed in another blog entry. Here I want to focus on the two main slave-types and not on a BDSM-session.
Friday, September 14, 2018
The 2 Slave-Types: The Natural Slave (1/4)
In this series I will first define what a "natural slave" is. In the second post I will write about the "session slave". Afterwards I will describe in the third post the "pseudo session slave" and at the end I will give my conclusion to the slave-types. Of course there are more subtypes: The Masochistic Slave, Submissive Slave, Dogslave and so on. Here I focus on the two main types! Enjoy!
It is also important to keep in mind that their are also two Master-types. I will write about that in another post series.
It is also important to keep in mind that their are also two Master-types. I will write about that in another post series.
The Natural Slave
As you expect a natural slave do not play a "role". He feels high and a low protocol. Rules & structure that applies at any time (low protocol) and rules & structures that applies when you train, demonstrate or would like to enjoy your slave in an "full-slave mode" (high protocol). In another post I will describe the difference between a sessions and the BDSM Lifestyle with the low/high protocol. Here I want to focus on the two slave-types.that he wants to serve a Master. This enjoys and brings him happiness. His purpose is to serve and make his Owner/Master happy. The natural slave sees always the hierarchy and know his place even when the "session" is over. Also when he meets you on the street or you talk "normal" with him he recognize the hierarchy and sees his position as slave. In my point of view, you need for this kind of slave a
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